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Old 03-12-2006, 03:46 AM
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Had a discussion with a mate earlier. He cheated on his girlfriend last night. I think that is a horrible thing to do but most importantly it indicates something(which in this case was obvious all along) . I personally believe that once you are even capable of doing such things you simply don't love the girl/guy the way you should. If you did, you wouldn't want someone else to begin with, your conscience wouldn't allow you either. Once such things occur it is probably best to break up, the relationship is obviously not what it should be. This is my view on it and if you do not agree with it for some reason I would love to hear about it. <3


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Old 03-12-2006, 03:52 AM
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I personally believe that once you are even capable of doing such things you simply don't love the girl/guy the way you should. If you did, you wouldn't want someone else to begin with, your conscience wouldn't allow you either. Once such things occur it is probably best to break up, the relationship is obviously not what it should be.



Some people continue the relationship even though they no longer love the other person because it is sometimes an easier way out plus some people are too scared of loneliness (which is not so bad after all, it is a thousand times better than being with someone you don't love anymore).
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Old 03-12-2006, 04:17 AM
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I never agreed with cheating. I never did that and probably never will. I was very hurt (& extremely angry, in a mood for street fightin') when I was cheated on so I wouldn't want to do that to somebody else. And loneliness is so much better than being with someone that turns out to be a stupid bitch. Time is on our side, after all.
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Old 03-12-2006, 08:31 AM
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I personally believe that once you are even capable of doing such things you simply don't love the girl/guy the way you should. If you did, you wouldn't want someone else to begin with, your conscience wouldn't allow you either. Once such things occur it is probably best to break up, the relationship is obviously not what it should be.


For once Lars, I agree with you 100%.. You hit the nail on the head with that one..

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I was once used as a tool for cheating..but I didn't know.

When i found out she had a boyfriend I felt really bad for him.
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I was once used as a tool for cheating..but I didn't know.

Ive been used or was gonna be used beofre i found out aobut 4 times this year. Its quite sad but one day i'll find someone.
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For once Lars, I agree with you 100%.. You hit the nail on the head with that one..

Dave: Mod, married & faithful for 23 years..

Count me in on the happily and faithfully married (15 years). The only way to be.
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I've been in a monogamous relationship for about four months now, and it's much better than all that random sketchy dating.
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[quote= I personally believe that once you are even capable of doing such things you simply don't love the girl/guy the way you should. If you did, you wouldn't want someone else to begin with, your conscience wouldn't allow you either.[/QUOTE]

Too true, very well put
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I agree with you to a certain extent. I don't agree that if you do participate in such an act, that means you automatically do not trully love your partner. I mean in moments, there are times when you just don't think straight. And sadly that is usually when such infidelity occurs.
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I've been in a monogamous relationship for about four months now, and it's much better than all that random sketchy dating.

God I am so over the sketchy dating... need me a lovely young man me thinks..
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I agree with you to a certain extent. I don't agree that if you do participate in such an act, that means you automatically do not trully love your partner. I mean in moments, there are times when you just don't think straight. And sadly that is usually when such infidelity occurs.
I agree. It is not always the case that you don't love them. Mostly, yes maybe, but not always. I have a friend who cheated on his girlfriend and is still very much in love with her and regrets it to this very day.

And what about if you have an 'open relationship'?
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I agree. It is not always the case that you don't love them. Mostly, yes maybe, but not always. I have a friend who cheated on his girlfriend and is still very much in love with her and regrets it to this very day.

And what about if you have an 'open relationship'?
I'm sorry -but open relationships aside - the very fact that someone is having "regrets" ought to tell you something....
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God I am so over the sketchy dating... need me a lovely young man me thinks..

Aww...he'll come along Dyd...you've got lots to give when he does.
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